Friday, October 4, 2013

Fridays Are For Friends - Reach Out

Friday. Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays are days you want to spend with family friends and lovers. But you can't wait until the last minute and expect them to be there, plan ahead. We have this terrific arts center in town, Most generously donated to the University by a very considerate and hard-working man named Forbes. It's called The Forbes Center for the Performing Arts. I think it cost in excess of 93 million to build. Such amazing generosity. I would like to be that successful that I could do something like that. My other hometown is filled with philanthropists as well - Eastman, Galisano, Wegman... Eastman gave my hometown his vision, a medical school, dental school, university, music school and was so generous to his employees, Mr Galisano, the founder of Paychex built a children's wing at one hospital, a neuro/brain center at another and a rehab center as well, all to benefit the local community. The Wegman's family is also constantly giving to the communities they are located in and to their employees. (They pay for their employees college tuition if you agree to work during breaks and semesters) Awesome!

Always wanted to go to the Forbes Center and saw many venues I liked but was never able due to schedule. So I bought a bunch of tickets for a Friday night show and took my friends. It is a spectacular place and the audience was pumped up because a local boy (Phil Vasser) made good was on stage. Could he play the piano! I thought the keys were going to burn up! The staff told me most venues sell out and there is something going on almost every night.

You don't have to have a lot of money to reach out to others and to do your own mini philanthropy, just the thought to do it and the effort to act on it. Drop off goods at the food bank, shovel or sweep your neighbors walk, take someone a meal, say a kind word to someone, smile and be encouraging, open the door. It's called kindness and it's contagious. it also helps not to judge because we don't know where the other person has been. Give them a hand up and an encouraging word. It might go a long way

Reconnect.

Who will you reach out to today?